Skip navigation! This article was originally published on June 27, Are you satisfied with your sex life? As a sex-positive, intersectional feminist and sexologist, I hate hearing that people aren't having great sex or aren't experiencing enough full-bodied pleasure in the act. We deserve to have regular orgasms.
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Multiple Orgasm Technique - How to Have Multiple Orgasms
If you're one of the few women who can pull off multiple orgasms like they're NBD, congrats! We're pretty sure they exist, but it'd be a lot easier to get on board if we'd ever experienced one ourselves. If you're looking for tips on how to improve your odds of experiencing the mythical multiple orgasm, you can find some helpful tips here and here. In the meantime, two real women who Are About That Life explain exactly what it feels like to have multiple orgasms.
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In fact, many women -- about one out of three -- have trouble reaching orgasm, period , when having sex with a partner. There are multiple factors at play here, not the least of which being it takes the average man a mere three to five minutes to orgasm, while most women need at least So just as she's getting warmed up, he blows his load and leaves her in a pleasure lurch.
In fact, some experts say 70 percent of women rarely or never have orgasms. And yet men put a premium on it for a few obvious reasons: 1 porn and 2 they want to feel like their penis is a sexual hot rod that will make you speak in tongues and throw your vibrator into a volcano. Ob-gyn Heather Bartos explains that vaginal orgasms tend to be deeper and involve more pulsating of the vaginal muscles than clitoral orgasms. The clitoris is super sensitive afterward and a longer refractory period may be necessary. They can be enhanced with the G-spot, which provides a different sensation, and clitoral orgasm during penetration can give you the feeling of vaginal orgasm.